We recently talked about “We give yeses in this family” – a behavior tip to add to your parenting toolbox, especially when your head feels like it might explode if you hear another “no!” or your child ignores you when you ask them to help out!
To help further explain how this tip works, check out this short video.
*A quick reminder about an important note: This tip DOES work BOTH WAYS, involving yeses on both sides. Now, that doesn’t mean we always have to say yes (sometimes a “no, I’m sorry” is needed for their health and safety!). However, it does mean that we do need to be mindful that we are saying yes to reasonable requests and asks. Because if they are always and only hearing “no, you can’t!” — take a guess at what response they are learning as their default (and what you’ll ultimately end up getting back).
Okay – your turn! Give it a try and let me know how it goes. And if you know a fellow parent who is tired of hearing “No!” or being ignored, share this video. It might add some relief and a spot of calm to their week.